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Thursday, June 24, 2021

Arnold and Newlin: 1959

Newlin said they had to get on with life quickly after Eddie's death because they had two young highly active sons not pausing their growth to mourning the loss of their brother. Joel was barely a year old and Allan was three and a half.

Here are slides from the 1959 Rose Parade in Pasadena:

1959 slide by Arnold H. Nevis

1959 slide by Arnold H. Nevis
Chevrolet float

1959 slide by Arnold H. Nevis
Quaker Oats float

1959 slide by Arnold H. Nevis
Long Beach float

1959 slide by Arnold H. Nevis
Inglewood float

1959 slide by Arnold H. Nevis
California State Polytechnic University float

1959 slide by Arnold H. Nevis

1959 slide by Arnold H. Nevis
Mayor's Trophy, City of South Pasadena float


This next is Leonard's son (Arnie's nephew) Walter from Leonard's second wife Lucille. 

Walter William Nevis, age one

In the summer of 1959 Arnie and Newlin drove to Florida to visit Newlin's family. On the drive back, Newlin's two nieces Linda Langston and Elise Ferrell accompanied them. Linda and Elise experience their first Mexican food in Texas. Also in Texas, Arnie took Linda and Elise to an Elvis concert. On the road trip the family saw attractions such as the Petrified Forest National Park. In California, they visited a mission or two as well as Disneyland.

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Allan on a horse, Florida, 1959

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel and Allan, Florida, 1959

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Linda in the Petrified Forest, Arizona

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Elise and Joel

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel in the Petrified Forest

In California they visited the Santa Barbara Mission along with Arnie's sister Laura.

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Elise, Newlin, Linda, and Laura, Mission Santa Barbara

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Newlin, Joel, Elise, Linda, Allan, and Laura, Mission Santa Barbara

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel in San Bernarndino

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Allan, Mission Santa Barbara

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Allan, Linda, Joel, and Elise, Mission Santa Barbara

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Laura, Allan, and Linda, Mission Santa Barbara

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Elise, Linda, Newlin, and Joel, Mission Santa Barbara

Relaxing at home in the Nevis apartment in Westwood, Joel observed the adults eating potato chips with dip; not quite getting the dip concept, he shoved one in Linda's mouth with toothpaste on it.

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Allan, Joel, and Newlin in Westwood

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Newlin, Joel, Elise, Allan, and Linda in Westwood

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Newlin, Elise, Allan, Joel, and Linda in Westwood

1959 photo by Newlin Nevis
Linda, Elise, Allan, Joel and Arnie in Disneyland

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel and Allan, Westwood, California

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel

1959 photo by Newlin Nevis
Joel, Arnie and Allan

1959 photo by William E. Nevis
Joel in Glendale

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel in Griffith Park

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Firefighters Allan and Joel

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel at play

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel's second birthday

1959 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Joel after the birthday party

Joel and Allan on Santa's lap

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Wednesday, June 23, 2021

Arnold and Newlin: 1958 Eddie falls ill

In 1958 Arnie and Newlin learn that Eddie has acute leukemia. They had just signed to buy a house in the San Fernando Valley, but managed to get out of it so they could rent an apartment adjacent to the UCLA campus — for a shorter commute by bicycle for Arnie and for the convenience of being closer to the hospital for Eddie.

Eddie's ID from UCLA Medical Center, 1958



Nursie is writing on the Wakulla County tax assessor's stationery so she crosses the title out.
(She had been tax assessor after her husband died; he had also been tax assessor for Wakulla County.)



Here are a few of the last photos of Eddie's life:
1958 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Allan with a very thin Eddie, summer 1958, Los Angeles, California

1958 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Eddie playing in the back yard of their Westwood apartment, summer 1958 (developed in November 1959)

1958 photo by Arnold H. Nevis
Eddie and Newlin in the yard of their Westwood (Los Angeles), California, apartment

Here is a get well card from Newlin's nieces and nephews Julia, Robert, Susan, David, and Jane:





This letter is from Newlin's cousin Helen Durrance. (We always called her Aunt Helen). 




The Durrance clan, with Sallie Durrance and three of her four daughters, their spouses and grandchildren, Florida;
Helen on the ladder in the back


Sallie Durrance and her four daughters, with Helen in the very back, Florida, 1952;
the other three daughters are Bertie, Copie and Devota 


The Durrance family at Alligator Point, Florida, 1956. Due to beach erosion, the house had to be moved back at least two times


Helen's nephew Wilburn Lamar "Sporty" Hartsfield, 1957


Two of the Durrance sisters (one is Helen) with Floreine (Newlin's sister), November 20, 1955

Newlin mentioned that Eddie was in an experimental program at UCLA for testing leukemia treatments, and he was lucky to be in it; families were desperate to seek out such experiments for their dying children. She once said that Eddie got two of the four drugs that would within two years have prolonged his life into young adulthood.

Also in that UCLA leukemia treatment program was Richard Skelton, the son of comedian Red Skelton. He was four years older than Eddie, and Arnie and Newlin observed Richard's progress closely, as Eddie's ups and downs with treatment would shadow those of Richard. Richard died in May 1958.

hematology report for Eddie, UCLA

Eddie died on September 7, 1958 at the UCLA Medical Center. Newlin reminisced that in those days one could open the windows in the hospital, and at the very moment Eddie passed away a gentle breeze blew through the room. They allowed themselves some time alone with their deceased son before calling in the hospital staff. 

He was subsequently buried in a vault in the Forest Lawn Memorial Park in Glendale next to his Aunt Dolly. Several decades later, after Arnie died and Newlin had purchased plots in Tallahassee, Eddie was disinterred from Glendale and reinterred in Florida, making room in Forest Lawn for his Aunt Laura to be buried there in 1992 next to Dolly.

September 16, 1958, certificate of death copy at the Division of Vital Statistics, Department of Health, Los Angeles

Eddie's 1958 certificate of death lists September 7 for his death, acute leukemia for the cause, and September 9 for his burial

Over a year later, Arnie and Newlin make a $500 donation to Cal Tech in Eddie's name, presumably with money from an insurance policy.



For the rest of their lives Newlin and Arnie donated to leukemia charity work and to charities such as the Make-A-Wish Foundation: Newlin always remembered that Eddie had wanted his parents to buy a new car, which they would do only a bit later in 1960.


next post  Arnold and Newlin: 1959

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first post in Arnold's Story  July 1943

first post in blog  Leonard's Story: May 29, 1943